Life is a rollercoaster

When is the time to give up in a relationship? Is it when we're furious at someone so much we feel we hate him? No. You simply cannot hate someone you loved a while ago. "There's a line between love and hate and I don't mind.." - that's what a song said. Is that line so thin or is it intangible. I think it's just not there, there's not a line, there's a whole universe between these two, the opposite ends of the spectrum. You can only hate someone you never loved. So that kind of unbearable hatred is just that irresistible love. So that's not the point we should give up. If we can say we have such strong feelings as hatred and love for someone, we're not done with him. And if we're not done, we gotta fight...but only if this fight is worth it. Cause sometimes you just 'see the end before it begins' and you feel it's time you surrender or do your best to move on. I was once watching the sea and I saw some waves crush down before they reached the shore, in the open sea. And that's what I thought.. everything was over and there was no point at all to deny it. Because even at the beginning I knew how it would all end up. I could tell which waves will crush out there and which ones will make it to the dry sand. But if I gotta choose, it's better to be that wave that came to the surface and crash down at the middle of its way than staying under the water your whole life. And staying under and even diving deeper is just the way to hide our emotions, because we are afraid..afraid of the open sea, where everything can happen, you don't know when there would be sunshine or storm, or your boat will crush in a rock. Life is just that open sea, and anticipation of the unexpected is its true beauty.