Life is a rollercoaster

That's what a friend of mine just said. In nature, most of the animals can feel a storm coming, in our human life, can we feel a storm coming and how? We expect a fight and we do everything to avoid it and still the more we try to release the safe cushion, the worst the burst out would be. So there are signs, clearly perceivable, highly obvious and we stay with our eyes wide shut, avoiding to take them into account. So what is better, staying blind and hope the storm will pass us, or open our eyes and fight it? I've always been the kind of person who hates arguing and who believes that everything would be fine as long as we don't face the problems, as if they would go by themselves. At a point, I forget about the problem, start being happy again and act normally, and when the other problem occurs, it's harder for me to digest it, to swallow it and to forget about it. Somehow I succeed, until the next one comes. And so on and so on..The times when I said exactly what's on my mind and what bothers me had actually ended as some of the happiest moments when you have fought the storm and you see the sun again. So no matter how hard it is, we should always face the storm, and when we feel it coming, because we're animals after all, take some precautions measures to avoid it or wait for it, get straight into its core and conquer it. Strangely enough, I like walking in the rain and I was never afraid of it, it's always been so refreshing.. So if we try walking in the rain of our relationship, maybe it will be refreshing for both and we would be more happy when we see the sun rising up again:)